The social pressures of impressing women and competing for attention are making many men consider giving up on dating entirely. You spend time and money on the song and dance only to find out that nice guys really do finish last.
Women claim that men are shallow and only want one thing but never even give the time of day to a nice guy with a genuine interest in getting to know them. There are exceptions I am sure, but not very many that I have seen. Too often, guys feel like they did everything right: Took her out somewhere nice, paid for everything, made her laugh, complimented her on her look and made her feel appreciated for the time she put into getting ready…And then the girl disappears or says she isn’t ready for a relationship. Classic case of nice guys finish last.
First off, no normal guy will want to rush into a relationship. Women, you are jumping ship before it even leaves the port. I understand the possibility of a nice guy turning into a clingy responsibility is scary – but that can be just as scary for us guys – if not more.
I am currently in a committed relationship with someone that I love. However, when I was dating I remember getting discouraged plenty of times and being ready to throw in the towel. I am not afraid to approach a pretty girl and politely (keyword fellas: POLITELY, not “damn ma, you fly as fuuuuuuh”) introduce myself and ask her about herself. Throughout this social experiment that we call “dating” I met several types of girls, and some women. The majority (again with a few exceptions) were girls that thought they were doing me a huge favor by talking to me. I mean, I don’t consider myself an unattractive guy or socially retarded. I did not disrespect them or give them reason to treat me like I was spraying Ebola into their face with every word that I spoke.
The fact that most guys are coming to realize is this: Most women expect too much and provide too little; and the few that are worth their weight in gold don’t realize it so their insecurities are sabotaging relationships. Good guys aren’t extinct – they are playing video games and hanging out with their friends, hiding from your crazy ass! Recently, professional video gamer Doug “FaZe Censor” Martin broke up with his super model girlfriend Yanet Garcia. FaZe claims they broke up so that he can focus more on his gaming career – and people lost their shit. This is the perfect example of how much work a relationship can be.
Below you will find an excerpt from a very interesting article I found online that talks about the decay of the dating scene from a man’s perspective:
“Social commentators, journalists, academics, scientists and young men themselves have all spotted the trend: among men of about 15 to 30 years old, ever-increasing numbers are checking out of society altogether, giving up on women, sex and relationships and retreating into pornography, sexual fetishes, chemical addictions, video games and, in some cases, boorish lad culture, all of which insulate them from a hostile, debilitating social environment created, some argue, by the modern feminist movement.
You can hardly blame them. Cruelly derided as man-children and crybabies for objecting to absurdly unfair conditions in college, bars, clubs and beyond, men are damned if they do and damned if they don’t: ridiculed as basement-dwellers for avoiding aggressive, demanding women with unrealistic expectations, or called rapists and misogynists merely for expressing sexual interest.” –THE SEXODUS, PART 1
MGTOW!!!!!
There is no reason to date,marry or have kids. These guys are doing the right thing.
They are doing the right thing. Women are not worth the trouble
Well, I’m 55 was married for 24 years. My ex was a control freak. Told her so but that made no difference to her, marriage counseling worked only temporary. I understand it takes to two to make it work. Needless to say, I was expected to change but not her: so I ended it. Dating has changed tremendously in the last 30 years. Online dating is a joke. I have dated some attractive women in my time. I don’t want a 20 or 30 year old. 45 plus is more my style up to 59 but women nowadays feel they are beauty queens or cougars, nothing wrong with feeling great about yourself but some are to much. Materialistic and want Superman. Maybe a little exaggerated. I haven’t had a girlfriend in almost 4 years and I’m to the point; feeling the “chase” isn’t worth it anymore.
This fit me EXACTLY
Totally true. 99% of today’s women are not worth the effort. Guys should concentrate on their education and career where their efforts will have a tangible effect. Even if you don’t get married, the more money you have the better.
I find all the generic complaints from women about men, from my observations it’s often them blaming men for the behavior that is only coming from themselves.
Like my mate is a narcissistic violent d1ck according to his old lady, I’ve known him forever and I have witnessed these violent outbursts more than once, she attacks him, he has to put his arms up she damages her hands and arms on his defense then falls down, starts screaming hysterically, screaming at the top of her voice, the language coming from that savages mouth is disgusting, which brings me to my point……. I find no women on this world.
Save yourself, the depression, Money, drama, and stress. I can’t even look in the direction of a woman without being called a creep. And I’ve been told I’m extremely good looking by most straight and gay men. So my point is why even put yourself through the trouble with women. My advice is to stay indoors as much as possible and hide from women.
Most women today are just so very horrible to meet as it is, since they just have so many very high unrealistic expectations nowadays with very high standards as well.